What you call if one seek financial help from parents after marriage.  If its a groom parents, then?
Correct, they will surely help without resisting, or simply deny(rare case). This is called financial help.
Then what is dowry. Why help form either of the party is not financial help, why most of the parties think that Girl is nothing but the pain forever, financially, emotionally and socially. Why don't they think that she is the pride. Don't know who derived this word.
Stop using this word and you will see the change for sure.